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... From the Goodnews archives, March/April 2002


 

Lifestyle Evangelism

Barbara Mason, one of the members of the NSC in England, who is American and married to an Englishman, shares some of her attempts at evangelism with her neighbours


Evangelisation - spreading the Good News of salvation and new life in Jesus Christ - seems such an official "Church phrase"Barbara Mason sometimes. It conjures up soapbox preaching on street corners, or being directly associated with a formal diocesan organisation or course. Most of us, however, are not involved in anything of that sort. We merely get on with our ordinary lives, and try to be "salt and light" where we live and work. I've been asked to share some of these experiences to encourage those of you who, like me, are not "official evangelists", but rather, run-of-the-mill disciples of Jesus Christ in our everyday lives.

My husband, Paul, and I moved to Lancashire five years ago. It took a year or so to begin acquainting ourselves with the people, the place, and the parish. Eventually, we asked the parish priest if we could show Fr. Raniero Cantalamessa's talks on video (Drink From the Wells of the Church) in our parish hall one evening a week during Advent and Lent. I prepared an outline of each talk with questions for discussion. About 6-10 people turned up each week - the "stalwarts" of the parish. Nothing came of it afterwards.

With the permission of our parish priest, I started a morning Bible Study for ladies in our home, advertising with posters and sending personal invitations to people I had come to know and whom I thought might be interested. I purchased a large coffee machine which made up to eighty cups of coffee, and lined up a lending library of good Christian books and videos. Two women came (one a neighbour who took pity on me, I think!) for a few Wednesdays, but it fizzled out.

We have a large, comfortable home which can accommodate lots of people, so a few months later Paul and I decided to host four "Discipleship Dinners" on consecutive Friday nights from 7.30-9.30pm (busy people need to know when things start and finish!) We offered a buffet supper with a glass of wine, thirty minutes catechesis (I'm a religion teacher) followed by thirty minutes discussion. We put up posters and sent out invitations once again, not knowing who would come. Thirteen people, ranging from the 'un-churched' to committed Catholics, turned up (some we knew, some we did not!) They all seemed to thoroughly enjoy it, not least the food and fellowship, in our delightful old farmhouse. But nothing came of that, either (at least, not that we know of!)

At the same time, I offered four Wednesday mornings (to start) called "Christian Coffees" for women, from 9.30-11.30am, to explain the basic teachings of Christianity from Scripture and Church teaching (we used a booklet called Do We All Worship the Same God? from Proclaim! Publications; but many of the videos from Catholic Evangelisation Services would do, or a Scott Hahn Bible Study found on the internet). This, surprisingly, was well-attended, and lo and behold, the ladies wanted to continue after the four sessions. Since many of them had babies or small children, they brought them as well (one Mum a week offered to look after them in the conservatory while we had our Bible Study in the living room.) This Bible Study has grown (they are inviting their friends!) so there are more than a dozen mothers now. One woman says it's her "anchor"; others say that it's a godsend since they are unable to attend Church events other than Sunday Mass because they are usually offered in the evenings or on weekends - an impossibility with a young family.

These mothers fellowship with one another and of course we pray together. They are passing around the Christian books and audio cassettes I lend them (audios being very practical for young mothers who can listen in the car or whilst ironing, or nursing their babies!) The have decided they want to begin the Life in the Spirit Seminar (on video) next - in the comfort of my living room!

Our latest initiative is a once-a-month Sunday lunch in our home for up to six girls from nearby Stonyhurst College, some of whom we know, others we don't (last week we took them walking with our dogs up on the Fell after lunch: they loved it!) Who knows what the Lord will do through that?

It is needless to mention to Goodnews readers that neither my husband nor I would have ever dreamt of doing any of these evangelistic outreaches before we were baptised in the Holy Spirit: the key to "lifestyle evangelism". (note: read The Holy Spirit, the Missing Person, by Peter Kreeft!)

"Can you pray for my dolly now?"