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... From the Goodnews archives, November/December 2003


 

Christmas

An Opportunity To Share The Good News With Our Neighbours


Kristina Cooper shares how she organised an outdoor nativity pageant, as a way of bringing the true meaning of Christmas to the inner city housing estate where she lives.

 

The Nativity Pageant"He's coming, he's coming!" I still remember the excitement on the children's faces as the big van carrying Noel, the donkey, the star of our nativity pageant, was spotted arriving on the estate. It had been touch and go whether Noel would arrive or not. The horse box had broken down and as it was too far for him to walk, the director of the city farm had suggested that she might bring a couple of rabbits instead! Fortunately, one of the parishoners had managed to find a riding stables with an empty horse box, which had been dispatched to fetch Noel.

The idea of organising a nativity on the streets of the housing estate where I lived had come to me some months previously. The first year I had moved into my parish of St Vincent's, I had organised a nativity play for the children in the church. It had been a great success, and far from children dropping out, as I had feared, numbers had grown, as the cast had brought their friends along, who wanted to be in it too.

Some people never get to hear the Christmas story

It occurred to me that most nativity plays, like the one I did, are put on in Christian schools or churches, so many people in our increasingly secularised society today never get to hear the Christmas story any more. And how will people know if someone doesn't tell them? Why not take the story outside I thought. Instead of the audience sitting in seats they could follow the action on foot and witness the various scenes, starting with the Annunciation at Mary's house, and then join Mary and Joseph as they rode on the donkey round the estate, stopping at various houses ("inns") before ending up at the stable at Bethlehem with fireworks, carols and mulled wine on the small green, at the back of the block where I lived.

I had been looking for an activity that the teenagers on the estate could work on, and it occurred to me, that maybe I could get some of them involved too. They were a bit difficult to convince. A few of them did agree to help me create some posters, which we delivered telling people what was planned and some helped to paint the crib. On their suggestion, we called the event "An old fashioned Christmas".

Name calling and ridicule

I suppose I was a little naïve thinking I could get actually get teenage boys in this day and age into costume, and I was told firmly that I should look to my church connections for performers, which I did, calling on our fun club. It was a bit difficult at the dress rehearsal as the poor children had to put up with all sorts of name calling and ridicule from some of the hard boys on the estate when they saw what we were doing. I wondered what was going to happen on the day itself and whether we were putting the parish children under an unfair spotlight?

Ecumenical dimension - moslems too!

The organisation of everything turned out to be a pretty mamouth undertaking and there were many late nights and stresses as people tried to fit the preparations for the production into their already busy schedules. But God showed his hand and even weaknesses turned into strengths. When I found we had nowhere to rehearse as our parish hall was booked solid, the local Baptist church on the estate lent us theirs. When we found we didn't have enough parish children willing to take part, we managed to co-opt the children's choir of a nearby small African Pentecostal Church as our angelic choir. And when, the night before, we found they hadn't made their costumes we were able to borrow the cassocks of a friendly Anglican church, with net curtains for wings. Thus without any formal planning, it turned into a truly ecumenical collaboration!/p>


The event also gave me an excuse to talk to my neighours and I went round my block of flats asking if people might help by providing food for the party afterwards. Among the most generous were my Moslem neighbours. They were delighted that some kind of community celebration was happening and only too willing to cook something. The eldest son of one family even joined the procession, being responsible for the loud hailer.

Christmas spirit!

The event seemed to bring out the Christmas spirit in all kinds of people. To my amazement a Battersea company lent us the professional portable spotlights we needed free of charge and a local charity supplied a crate of red wine for our mulled wine. The bulk of the work, however, fell on parishoners and friends, who helped with the rehearsals, sewed the costumes, built the crib, supplied the candles for the candlelit procession and provided the microphones and loud hailers needed for outside performance.


In God's providence, CNN, the American TV network, got to hear of it and, on the day, sent a small crew to film the proceedings. This resulted in a 3 minute item appearing on Sky News on Christmas Eve. When they saw the TV cameras arrive, the inn signs being erected in the street and lights and sound equipment being unloaded, even the boys who had mocked earlier, became caught up in the magic and excitement of the event. "Is anyone allowed to come?" two of the trouble makers asked. "Of course," I said. Not only did they turn up with their girlfriends in tow, but ended up helping hand out the food, and joining the helpers' communal curry at the end of the day.

Nostalgia for goodness and lost innocence

It really was a magical experience for us all touching those of faith and none. A card was handed to me afterwards from someone on the estate I didn't know, thanking everyone for giving them a special "old fashioned Christmas". I realised that there is something about the Christmas story that taps into people's nostalgia for lost innocence, for goodness, for different values even if they are no longer formal Christian believers. It's important to keep this feeling alive in our culture to provide fertile ground for the gospel message. Festivals like Christmas which have cultural as well as spiritual roots are an ideal occasion to share what we believe in a way that people of our generation are open to. As the pope says in urging us to the new evangelisation, we must look for new methods and ways of preaching the good news of the gospel - organising this little nativity, I found to be an effective and fun, if rather tiring, way of doing this!


A Nativity In The Garden


Caroline van den Berg, who lives in Portugal, shares how she organised a nativity in the garden last Christmas for her children and their school friends.


We moved to Portugal in July last year. Although Portugal is a very Catholic country and every roundabout has a nativity scene on it, the international school where we sent our two children was very secular and Jesus didn't get a look in, even at Christmas time. I was determined to do something about it, at least for my own children, so I decided to organise a special Christmas nativity for them and their friends. I made it into a party occasion, and invited all the parents as well. There were about 30 adults in all, and twenty children. I think most of the adults thought it was going to be a typical boozy pre-Christmas thing and a bit of a laugh so they were quite surprised when they arrived and found we were taking it quite seriously. We had a proper narrator who was absolutely fantastic to tell the story. He was an adult and wore a spectacular arab costume. We even managed to get hold of a pony from the local riding school, to act as the donkey in the story.

We had only rehearsed the children twice, but they were very good and absolutely loved it. The whole thing was quite magical. We have a swimming pool in the garden and we had Mary sitting beside this, pretending her house was by a river. Then we moved everyone to the other side of the garden for the scene with the shepherds. They were sitting under the palm tree warming their hands over a real fire - which was barbecue thing, very common here in Portugal. We had made lots of pretend sheep, which we stuck on skewers around them. Then we turned the fairy lights on and the angels came in, bouncing on the trampoline.

We turned our basement garage into the stable at Bethlehem and filled it with bales of hay and laid out chairs so everyone could come and sit down and sing carols round the crib. Then afterwards we moved upstairs to the house and served mulled wine and people brought food to share. Everyone was really touched by it all. There is nothing sweeter and more innocent than children doing the Christmas story, and people told me afterwards that it had been the high point of their Christmas activities. It put meaning back into Christmas for them and, as many of them were ex-pats, it created a sense of family for them when they were far away from home, and was a way of showing them love and care.